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My Pride 2020 Round-Up

This June has been the busiest Pride I have ever been involved in and I have attended a load of further counselling CPD’s as well as some more relaxed events. It’s been amazing that all these voices, courses, and discourses have become so accessible. Possibly one of the main advantages …

Personal Post: Teasing sub fail

There’s some moments in any form of a relationship where things go wrong, but they are so random and funny, that all you can do is laugh. Let’s first get this straight, a sub and Dom agreement, is a form of a relationship. It’s not the standard monogamous relationship you …

Casual Encounters on trains and at stations

Over the past few months I have been exploring causal encounters and the place I have found to be the most successful of places to find someone up for a quick release wasn’t in any of the pubs or clubs, but whilst travelling on trains and stopping briefly at train …

Alfresco Sex: Silly positions to be in

Alfresco Sex is hot in the air right now, with summer weather allowing lovers to explore their passion for the great outdoors. The main thing which we often fear about when exploring outside sex is the worry of getting caught. We seek out areas where we won’t get caught, whether …

The Sex Diaries Project

With the start of 2013 almost upon us, many of use are making preparations for the new year. One essential for many people is a diary. Mine is already filled with appointments and events for 2013, and whilst many exciting and others necessary, my everyday dairy has very little room …

Emotional Grooming

Emotional grooming is where a person (often referred to as the ‘gromer’), manipulates words and actions, so that they say what they believe the victim wishes to hear, yet resulting in making sure the victims attention predominately caters to the groomers needs. Often at the victims own expense. Groomers generally …

Personal Post – Busy, busy, busy.

It’s been awhile since I’ve written a personal post, but due to finally getting on top of things after months of struggling, I finally feel ready to share a few things which have been going on in my life. Blogging had basically led me to experience burnout, and keeping up …