The Ultimate Guide to Sexual Fantasies by Violet Blue, if one of the best books out there for those who are looking to learn and explore more about sexual fantasies.
Cleis Press have kindly provided me with a copy to give away. I’d seriously advise checking out this guide, so why not take the time to enter blow.
“Choose Your Own Adventure
If you think you don’t fantasize, think again. Fantasies emerge from your erotic imagination in countless different forms, from fragmented sexual snippets to incredibly detailed narratives. Imagining romance, dreaming of someone you find attractive, masturbating to stories of taboo or even impossible sex, and vividly conjuring scenarios or sexual couplings you hope to make real in the near future are all ways we experience sexual fantasy.
Why do people like to fantasize about sex so much? Ever tried an aphrodisiac that worked? Not many
people have. Even the legendary “Spanish Fly” is a myth—but sexual fantasies truly are Mother Nature’s 100 percent natural, guaranteed aphrodisiac
“Fantasy can make masturbation intense and focused. You can set aside an hour just for your own pleasure, and include lubricant, a reliable toy such as a vibrator, and a fantasy—conjured by your own imagination, or taken from pictures in a book or magazine, or an adult movie.
Fantasy helps us to feel sexually self-reliant. Masturbating to a reliable fantasy and enjoying how good you can make yourself feel is one of the most empowering things you can do. Try casting yourself in the starring role of your favorite X-rated film, whether in your head while masturbating, while watching the action onscreen, or in real life, with a lover.
Or get out of a sexual rut, no matter if you’re single or in a couple, by finding new fantasies to explore.